Our intentions when entering the swinging lifestyle is to have FUN and sensual stimulation of our erotic senses, leading to sexually enhancing experiences. If everyone approaches it prepared and with a basic understanding of the lifestyle, as well as exercising common sense and courtesy to their own partner and other swingers they have contact with, they can be almost guaranteed to have a long lasting experience into the swinging lifestyle.

Here are some basic guidelines for interacting, both online and personally with other people you meet:

NO... NO MEANS NO

The must common rule in this lifestyle: NO means NO! This lifestyle accepts your privilege to say "No" to anyone at anytime. It should be done with a simple, courteous response. Never respond aggressively, as this is usually what promotes unwanted situations. The basic privilege in the swinging lifestyle that applies to everyone is the right to say "No". You realize quickly that not every person is for you. Inappropriate or over proportionate responses, can easily lead to a very bad experience.

DON'T BE PUSHY

Rudeness is not welcome at any time. Being pushy and carrying on with advances towards people that are seemingly not interested, is a BIG NO! If you do, you are certain to leave without satisfaction and the possibility of not being invited back by that person, couple, swinger’s party or swingers club again. Therefore, be polite!

BE FRIENDLY

This lifestyle is about making friends and then exploring the probabilities of sharing sexually enhancing experiences. You may or may not be sexually attracted to a particular person, but the friendship should be protected. Always remain friendly. Our intention is not to spoil a person’s swinging experience by not being friendly.

For the most rewarding experience, treat people how you wish to be treated yourself!

BE COURTEOUS

Courtesy is an essential part of our lives, especially on our lifestyle. Great gratification and pleasures can only be achieved if everyone chooses to be courteous at all times. Each person in every swinging situation has a different idea in their mind of what it will take to make their fantasies become a reality. Courtesy and accommodation are always required. Make sure you respect their wishes and remain courteous.

BE FIT

Always be ready. Take good care of yourself. Eat right, stay fit and healthy. Swinging is about finding attractive people who are attracted to you! You do not need to look like a “model” but if you are trying to “promote” yourself, being fit is Plus!!

BE CLEAN

Cleanliness is attractive! Very important tip, look and smell clean! Unpleasant body odor is a major turn off and the chances are you will leave unsatisfied if you are the perpetrator.

BE READY

Being ready requires planning ahead, for all potential needs during your outing. Going to a swinger’s date or party unprepared, is not acceptable! Have a “back pack” ready all the time. Useful things to include in your outing kit might be, hygiene products, hair accessories, additional clothing, lingerie, naughty toys and beverages, in case the party is BYOB! Leaving to find alcohol once you have arrived, leaves a bad impression. Never forget to bring your own personal protection and condoms.

DRUGS OR ALCOHOL

Most swingers enjoy social drinking. Drugs are not welcome in this life style. A few drinks are often perfect to help make you feel relax and comfortable. Please take note that excessive drinking often hampers your physical and mental abilities. It also works as a deterrent to push people away. If you have to drink excessively to have a pleasurable swinging experience, something is not working out for you!

SAFER SEX PRACTICES

One sexual experience can become a lifetime of regret! So BE SAFE! In order to enjoy years of pleasure and satisfaction in this lifestyle you should practice safe sex. Anyone who tries and persuades others otherwise is only acting irresponsibly and does not have genuine intentions for the protections of their partners.

Have Fun!